In a world flooded with digital distractions and rising social disconnection, how do we bring back authentic connection? Dr. Barbara Brock has an answer, and it’s wrapped in a small, heartfelt university assignment that grew into something extraordinary.
Creative Dates: The Why, the How, and the Reason for Now is not just a book—it’s a love letter to people everywhere who are tired of surface-level interactions and overpriced outings. During her time as a professor at Eastern Washington University, Dr. Brock gave her students a seemingly simple assignment: plan a creative date with clear rules—an official and physical invitation (nothing online), no more than $5 spent, and a travel limitation of five miles. What came out of it was pure magic.
From 1990 to 2013, students came back with stories that were hilarious, surprising, deeply moving, and always meaningful. These moments weren’t about candlelit dinners at expensive restaurants or luxury getaways. They were about human connection. They were about thinking differently, laughing uncontrollably, and learning to show up for someone in thoughtful, unexpected ways.
The book is divided into four practical parts: The Why,The How,The Reason for Now, and The Dates. This structure not only offers an inspiring collection of real-life creative dates but also gives readers the tools to recreate similar experiences in their own lives—no matter their relationship status or age.
Whether you’re single, in a new relationship, or have been married for decades, this book is your invitation to rediscover the joy of meaningful connection. Couples can reignite the spark they didn’t realize was flickering. Singles can explore creative ways to meet and connect with others without awkwardness or pressure. Everyone can benefit from learning to build real relationships with intention and joy.
What sets this book apart is its heart. Behind every story is the belief that we all need connection, that creativity beats consumerism, and that joy doesn’t have to come with a hefty price tag.
In a time when loneliness has become a public health crisis, Creative Dates offers more than date ideas—it offers hope. It’s packed with encouragement, practical ideas, and gentle wisdom that makes it just as useful as it is entertaining.
So whether you’re a romantic, a skeptic, or somewhere in between, this book will challenge you to look at relationships a little differently—and to try something a lot more fun.
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